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20th Jan 2012, 06:38 PM
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| EC's personal ninja. Full Member   Gender: Sex- female. Gender-Cisgendered. Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Only 4 people know so far. ( My dad is in denial.) Location: In an igloo. Posts: 71 Join Date: Dec 2011 |  Testing the waters So I have this girl who I have a crush but I don't know if she's gay/bisexual/straight/etc..., how can test the waters (metaphorically) to find out? She mostly comes around in the summer time, by the way.
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20th Jan 2012, 06:40 PM
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| EC Addict Regular Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Friends Location: New Zealand Age: 20 Posts: 935 Join Date: Dec 2010 | Re: Testing the waters Does she know you're gay? If she doesn't, tell her, and it'll give her a perfect opportunity to tell you if she is gay/bisexual/whatever in response. |
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20th Jan 2012, 07:02 PM
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| Sometimes Ignorance is NOT bliss. Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian ♀♀ Out Status: Ask me about it. Location: New York State. Age: 17 Posts: 766 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Re: Testing the waters Quote:
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20th Jan 2012, 07:18 PM
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| playing Devil's advocate. Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: I have caught 'the gay'. Out Status: Out at university! Location: Ontario, Canada Age: 20 Posts: 716 Join Date: Jun 2010 | Re: Testing the waters Slightly more subtly, I guess you could ask her if she has a boyfriend, or girlfriend, or how her love life is going or whatever. That depends more on if you're close or not though I think.
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