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djstcktn326 · 21st Jan 2012, 05:56 PM

Sometimes I don't know whether or not I'm gay, bi, or straight. I don't even know if I have GID. A lot of times, my head spins 150 mph and I can't think straight. I am just so confused. ??????????????????

phospholipase · 22nd Jan 2012, 12:42 AM

Just take things slowly, and eventually things will become clearer.

At the single instant a water drop falls into your eyes, things become blurry. Blink a couple times and your vision will return.

You don't have to make a decision right now. Life is so multifaceted and filled with so many things. Just continue with your To Do List and file this dilemma to return to it later.

Marlowe · 22nd Jan 2012, 05:25 PM

Unless the problem is that you once were certain you were gay and now things are crazy again, I would agree with phospholipase: It takes a while to know your sexual orientation but I think as you become more invested in your sexual orientation, being out, thinking about dating and stuff, it become much clearer. If you are struggling with your gender, there is that dimension, and maybe this is what your want to focus on because sexual orientation is obviously different from the perspective of different genders.

Try not to worry too much, it all works out in the end. Really it does.

21st Jan 2012, 05:56 PM	#1
djstcktn326 Well Known Full Member Gender: Very very very very feminine man. <3 Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Maryland Age: 20 Posts: 107 Join Date: Oct 2011	Facing confusion. ??????? Sometimes I don't know whether or not I'm gay, bi, or straight. I don't even know if I have GID. A lot of times, my head spins 150 mph and I can't think straight. I am just so confused. ?????????????????? __________________ No matter how bad the world gets, always keep a beautiful smile on your face.

22nd Jan 2012, 12:42 AM	#2
phospholipase 我是广东人。 But heavily Americanized? Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: Los Angeles Age: 20 Posts: 190 Join Date: Jan 2012	Re: Facing confusion. ??????? Just take things slowly, and eventually things will become clearer. At the single instant a water drop falls into your eyes, things become blurry. Blink a couple times and your vision will return. You don't have to make a decision right now. Life is so multifaceted and filled with so many things. Just continue with your To Do List and file this dilemma to return to it later.

22nd Jan 2012, 05:25 PM	#3
Marlowe Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: The people who matter Age: 22 Posts: 247 Join Date: Jul 2011	Re: Facing confusion. ??????? Unless the problem is that you once were certain you were gay and now things are crazy again, I would agree with phospholipase: It takes a while to know your sexual orientation but I think as you become more invested in your sexual orientation, being out, thinking about dating and stuff, it become much clearer. If you are struggling with your gender, there is that dimension, and maybe this is what your want to focus on because sexual orientation is obviously different from the perspective of different genders. Try not to worry too much, it all works out in the end. Really it does.

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