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Old 29th Jan 2012, 04:47 PM   #1
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I dont have like a crush on one guy. There are like 4 guys who I like the most, but I get turned on really easily by any guy that is cute or sexy (and he doesnt have to be super hot, just kind of sexy will do the trick). Is this normal?
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Old 29th Jan 2012, 04:52 PM   #2
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Its kinda the same for me. I have a crush on 3 guys, but others can still get me going. Idk. :/. Thats a good question. I think that its pretty normal.
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Old 29th Jan 2012, 05:18 PM   #3
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Bro once guys come out I instantly crush on them
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Old 29th Jan 2012, 05:56 PM   #4
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I have four or so guys I'd pass out with, a smile on my face, if they expressed romantic interest in me, but I do still see cute guys everywhere. I think it's normal.
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Old 29th Jan 2012, 07:29 PM   #5
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I guess it's a good thing, regardless whether it's normal or not. Now if one crush is making you feel down for whatever reason (i.e. unrequited love), you have someone else (or 3) that you can focus on.
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Old 30th Jan 2012, 11:39 AM   #6
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Considering I have been in relationships with 2+ people, where everyone involved is dating one another, I'd say it's normal. Not standard, but there's nothing wrong with it. Some people are strictly monogamous and some people find themselves crushing on multiple people at once. *shrugs* Go with it.
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