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31st Jan 2012, 01:32 PM
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| Well Known Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, except parents. Location: Salem New York Age: 15 Posts: 194 Join Date: Jan 2012 |  Just a ring? Or a mistake? Alright so yesterday I got a ring for my girlfriend. (its a very nice one. Silver band with a Blue Topaz cascade droplet thing, anyways its nice) So its been about 2 weeks scents I've even kissed my girlfriend. I don't know what her problem is..... But anyways my question is: Was it smart to give it to her this morning? Should I have waited for like Valentines Day, I have a nice thing planned out for then but yeah...should I have waited? I just knew that I would get a kiss when I gave it to her, and I realllllllyyyy needed one..... What do you think? Thanks.  |
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31st Jan 2012, 02:00 PM
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| Was Invisible. EC Moderator   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Age: 20 Posts: 3,705 Join Date: Jul 2008 | Re: Just a ring? Or a mistake? The nicest gifts are the more spontaneous ones, not weighed down by he expectations of a yearly event. And as you've given it to her already, there's no point dwelling on how things could have been different! |
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31st Jan 2012, 02:03 PM
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| I Can't Even Think Straight Regular Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Sexy hot guys Out Status: Family, friends, work, anyone who asks!!!! Location: Oregon, USA Posts: 308 Join Date: May 2011 | Re: Just a ring? Or a mistake? You didn't say!!! Did you get a kiss? I sure hope so. I agree with Ben spontaneity is sometimes the best thing.
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31st Jan 2012, 02:14 PM
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| Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, except parents. Location: Salem New York Age: 15 Posts: 194 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Re: Just a ring? Or a mistake? Quote:
 But She honestly didn't seem to happy about it. She kept trying to give it back to me.....  | |
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31st Jan 2012, 03:55 PM
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| EC Addict Full Member  Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 32 Posts: 1,085 Join Date: Feb 2011 | Re: Just a ring? Or a mistake? Rings carry more meaning in our culture than other jewelry, maybe she feels like you are asking for more commitment than she's ready for. And if she isn't out, she might feel like she'll have to explain where it came from. She also might feel guilty about receiving gifts generally, or like it makes her somehow obligated to you. It sounds like it might have been kind of expensive--so she might feel like it's too much. And since you are both young, she won't have a lot of experience with receiving romantic gifts, so she might just not know how to deal with it. You might just want to talk to her and ask her what was bothering her about it. |
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31st Jan 2012, 04:50 PM
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| Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, except parents. Location: Salem New York Age: 15 Posts: 194 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Re: Just a ring? Or a mistake? Quote:
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