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1st Feb 2012, 05:20 PM
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| Well Known Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, except parents. Location: Salem New York Age: 15 Posts: 194 Join Date: Jan 2012 |  Ohhhh noooo! Okay so I have a girlfriend, and I love her and everything, I mean, we have been having a few problems but I didnt think it was to serious. But anyways, I went to my STRAIGHT Friend's house after school today, and she is really pretty, like *really* good looking! And I just feel really bad, cause the whole time I was there I couldn't shake this feeling. I just really wanted to kiss her.  I didn't! But I still feel bad that I even thought of cheating! Does anyone know why I thought of that? Please help me!
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1st Feb 2012, 05:42 PM
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| EC Addict Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: Varies From Kinsey 2-6; Right Now 3.5 Out Status: 6 Friends; Boyfriend; Brother; Few Others Location: Long Island Age: 14 Posts: 433 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Re: Ohhhh noooo! Well, maybe you're used to having her as a girlfriend, and were thinking trying something new would be nice. Are you still physically attracted to her? And do you like your straight friend, or was it just this one time thing? |
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1st Feb 2012, 05:58 PM
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| Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, except parents. Location: Salem New York Age: 15 Posts: 194 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Re: Ohhhh noooo! Quote:
But those feelings left when I started dating my girlfriend, Untill today that is.... :/
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1st Feb 2012, 06:38 PM
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| 我是广东人。 But heavily Americanized? Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but family Location: Los Angeles Age: 20 Posts: 190 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Re: Ohhhh noooo! I think that it's silly to be freaking out about these things. You haven't been unfaithful yet. You'll probably find many people to be attractive during your lifetime. These kinds of attractions are normal and can pop up any day for anybody. Just keep up the self-control. |
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1st Feb 2012, 06:41 PM
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| Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, except parents. Location: Salem New York Age: 15 Posts: 194 Join Date: Jan 2012 | Re: Ohhhh noooo! Quote:
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2nd Feb 2012, 04:34 AM
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| EC Addict Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Quite a few Location: England, Age: 29 Posts: 3,166 Join Date: Dec 2008 | Re: Ohhhh noooo! Don't stress you didn't cheat, it is possible that because you and your girlfriend have been having some difficulties thats what made your friend attractive again all of a sudden. I wouldn't worry as long as you don't act on it, just concentrate on making things better for you and your girlfriend. |
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