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Jordash · 3rd Feb 2012, 04:30 PM

So, I just broke up with my girlfriend. So were still friends. I think I may have just died inside. But I refuse to have a break down.

But hey! Im single now!

Greenly79 · 3rd Feb 2012, 05:27 PM

Sometimes it's okay to break down a little... grieve the loss and get through it. So sorry to hear that.

LailaForbidden · 3rd Feb 2012, 05:32 PM

hey, let it out. holding it in is unhealthy... but i'm very sorry. all i can say is that there are plenty of fish in the sea. plenty of lovley gay gish :P

silverhalo · 3rd Feb 2012, 05:47 PM

Im sorry, its good to look at it positively but dont be afraid to cry.

Tiny Catastrophe · 4th Feb 2012, 02:54 AM

If it makes you feel any better, I was about your age when I had my first girlfriend but little did I know she dated me on a bet. One of my "friend's" bet her that she couldn't get me to go out with her. She lasted a week so she won the bet. But I'm sorry that happened to you. It's ok to be upset. You're still young, you'll find someone.

Hana Solo · 4th Feb 2012, 04:30 AM

My first relationship lasted three and a half weeks because it just wasn't working. He was totally into it, I regarded him only as a friend (sexuality non-issue). It's hard to break up, its hard to get back on your feet, but at least you're still friends. I found that my relationship improved with my ex after we broke up lol. We were much better friends than before.

Ianthe · 6th Feb 2012, 10:22 PM

I sort of wondered if that was the problem. Don't worry, you'll find a girl who feels the same way about you that you do about her.

It's hard when things don't work out. It's okay to be sad, but try not to be too mad at your ex-girlfriend. She gave it a shot and it just didn't work for her. She seems to have wanted it to work; I imagine she cares a lot about you.

3rd Feb 2012, 04:30 PM	#1
Jordash Well Known Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Gay Out Status: Anyone who asks, except parents. Location: Salem New York Age: 15 Posts: 194 Join Date: Jan 2012	She wasn't a lesbien. So, I just broke up with my girlfriend. So were still friends. I think I may have just died inside. But I refuse to have a break down. But hey! Im single now! __________________ This is a conversation between A and B, so C your way out before D jumps over E and Fs you up like a G.

3rd Feb 2012, 05:27 PM	#2
Greenly79 Member Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Location: Texas Posts: 38 Join Date: Jun 2011	Re: She wasn't a lesbien. Sometimes it's okay to break down a little... grieve the loss and get through it. So sorry to hear that.

3rd Feb 2012, 05:32 PM	#3
LailaForbidden Well Known Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: undefined, for now Out Status: family and a few friends as some degree of gay Location: Chicago, IL Age: 16 Posts: 102 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: She wasn't a lesbien. hey, let it out. holding it in is unhealthy... but i'm very sorry. all i can say is that there are plenty of fish in the sea. plenty of lovley gay gish :P

3rd Feb 2012, 05:47 PM	#4
silverhalo EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Quite a few Location: England, Age: 29 Posts: 3,166 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: She wasn't a lesbien. Im sorry, its good to look at it positively but dont be afraid to cry.

4th Feb 2012, 02:54 AM	#5
Tiny Catastrophe Love is genderless <3 Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: 2 sisters, mom, friends, school Location: New Yorkish Age: 19 Posts: 863 Join Date: Jun 2009	Re: She wasn't a lesbien. If it makes you feel any better, I was about your age when I had my first girlfriend but little did I know she dated me on a bet. One of my "friend's" bet her that she couldn't get me to go out with her. She lasted a week so she won the bet. But I'm sorry that happened to you. It's ok to be upset. You're still young, you'll find someone. __________________ Sometimes pain becomes such a huge part of your life that you expect it to always be there. Because you cant remember a time in your life when it wasnt but then one day you feel something else. Something that feels wrong, only because its so unfamiliar. Then in that moment you realize you're happy.

4th Feb 2012, 04:30 AM	#6
Hana Solo EC's Dear Abby- talk to me! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Mostly into girls Out Status: Closet is getting a little crowded Location: Not even a dot on the Australian map Age: 17 Posts: 1,096 Join Date: Nov 2011	Re: She wasn't a lesbien. My first relationship lasted three and a half weeks because it just wasn't working. He was totally into it, I regarded him only as a friend (sexuality non-issue). It's hard to break up, its hard to get back on your feet, but at least you're still friends. I found that my relationship improved with my ex after we broke up lol. We were much better friends than before. __________________ Thor: No matter what he's done, Loki is from Asgard and is my brother Black Widow: He killed 80 people in two days. Thor: ...adopted. ~The Avengers, 2012

6th Feb 2012, 10:22 PM	#7
Ianthe EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female/Femme Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Oregon Age: 32 Posts: 1,085 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: She wasn't a lesbien. I sort of wondered if that was the problem. Don't worry, you'll find a girl who feels the same way about you that you do about her. It's hard when things don't work out. It's okay to be sad, but try not to be too mad at your ex-girlfriend. She gave it a shot and it just didn't work for her. She seems to have wanted it to work; I imagine she cares a lot about you.