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A Genderqueer in Sheeps Clothing

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Mortimer, Jul 15, 2013.

  1. Mortimer

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    Hello everyone, my name is Mortimer. I'm actually a friend of one of the members Midnight Owl. And was told to join this place because Midnight said it awesome.

    All right a little background to who I am. I was born biologically female. My sex is female. But my gender identity is Genderqueer. I feel like neither gender, but feel more comfortable in more masculine attire and see myself as Genderqueer on the more masculine scale.

    My Genderqueer name is Perry. I think the name signifies both masculine and femine and can be for either gender, my personal opinion.

    I came to this sight because I have tried over and over again to tell my family about myself. But no one wants to seem budge. My grandparents think God designed me this way for a reason and that I shouldn't deny my real gender. My parents think that its time for me to grow out of this "phase" and become an adult.

    Then there is the thing that I am genderfluid when I am dating. All though I like to be the more dominate partner, I see myself as a straight woman with a straight man, I see myself as straight man with a straight woman, I see myself as a gay woman with a gay woman, I see myself as a gay man with a gay man, etc.

    All though oddly I am not physically attracted to straight men, but femine gay man. I am definetely more attracted to femine features. I wouldn't say woman, I'd say femine features. Because I find bishounen men attractive too.

    I love the duality nature. And often like to dress man and woman, but leaning to a more dominate style.

    Wow, I made a mess of this introduction.

    Also is there a rule about new members not having picture signatures? Because before I made this intro I took about thirty minutes to make a sig and avatar set.

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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!

    There is not a rule about new members having pic signatures. Most new members just don't know how to use the forum software yet :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks for the welcome. How do I get my sig up?
     
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    The picture has to fit within these specs

    It looks like part of your sig is showing up, so my guess would be that the image is too large.
     
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    My specs is 400 x 100.

    And also it said "img isn't valid" or something like that

    Img isnt valid BBcode
     
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    What file format do you have your image in?
     
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    I'm not too sure then. You could try posting in ask the staff. Somebody that knows more about the signature system might be able to help you out. Sorry I can't help more.
     
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    Thats okay you did what you could