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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Violet, Jul 18, 2013.

  1. Violet

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    I'm so glad I found EC! I've spent about half an hour trying to decide what to say, and still can't figure it out! ...a few months ago I realised I fell for my friend, it wasn't planned, I didn't mean to, it just happened... it wasn't just a crush! I know it... and despite I knew she is straight I decided to tell her... Even though I haven't kissed a girl, it feels right and everything makes sense to me now... I'm 33, have been married for more than 10 years and have two amazing children. Only my best friend and my sister know, until I'm certain that I'm not what thought I was...

    Looking forward to meeting you,


    Violet xx :smilewave
     
  2. LD579

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    Hello and welcome to EC =) I think violet is my... 5th or 7th favourite colour. It might depend on the day. Hm :wink:
     
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    Welcome to EC~
     
  4. LilacRainbow

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    heyho!
    I'm new here too! I found out by falling for a straight girl aswell...oh it took me like 3 years to get through that and over it. But she's still a weak spot for me, i can just imagine what i'd do if she told me now that she couldnt exclude being with a woman anymore.... I think id get angry and then kiss-attack her :grin:
    anyways, up to this day i only actually had boyfriends and never DID anything with a girl yet. Im in a relationship with a wonderful, most of the time passing-for-gay guy, who i basically turned around... i didnt intend to, i felt comfortable with him being just my friend, but at some point we were so close we just got together. I endeavour to keep him behaving "gay" cause hes so adorable when hes like that (drool) we've been together for a year now, and everything is still wonderful.
    what im apparently doing is taking babysteps towards being with a girl. my first boyfriend had some non-invasive sex with a guy, but doesnt identify as being drawn to guys (aswell). my second thought he may be bisexual, but had very little experience. and the one im with now identified as totally gay and had been in a long relationship with a guy prior to us getting together.
    so after this there may be a transsexual and then a girl? :grin: but im happy as it is now and i dont want to break up cause i dont have a single reason to do that :slight_smile:
     
  5. Violet

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    Thank you for welcoming me! It feels so good not being alone!!
     
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    Ahh the awesome power of violet....

    *snaps out of daydream* Um, what were we talking about? Oh yes, Welcome to EC! Every new person gets a free nuzzle from this furry so....*nuzzles*. Enjoy your stay here! (*hug*)
     
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    Hi there :welcome: to EC :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    Hello and Welcome to EC!!
     
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    A Kiwi! coooool! (greetings from the States :grin:)

    It's a pleasure to meet you and hopefully we can be friends :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi and welcome!! :smilewave
     
  11. Violet

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    Hey Luthan, violet is my 2nd or 3rd colour!!

    ---------- Post added 20th Jul 2013 at 12:28 AM ----------

    Hi LilacRainbow, well we have something in common!

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    ElPanaChevere pleasure to meet you too! I'd love to be friends! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there! :smilewave