Hello, I am a 51 year old professional in Northern New England who came out in early May to his wife of 21+ years. I have been going to a counselor since May and have been going to support groups in the Boston for the past month. I have had happy days, sad days, crying days, and everything inbetween. My wife has been very supportive and relieved to now know a big reason why our marriage was so turbulent. We will be going through mediation for separation and divorce. We have two children, a son, who will be a Freshman in college studying mechanical engineering and a daughter who will be a junior studying political science and public policy. I am without a doubt gay...but have only told my wife at this time and no one else. I am looking forward to this forum for additional support and those who have had similar experiences. Chargers1984
Welcome to EC, Chargers1984! We're here to listen and to respond, it's a safe place to be who you are and to share what you are feeling.
:welcome: Some of us are in your same age group. Feel free to ask us or tell us anything. We're here to help and listen.
Welcome, Let your pain begin to fade with the help and support of EC. Not knowing where to turn, or who to turn to is something very hard and also accepting your sexuality doesn't help in these situations. You have found the right place for fantastic support and I really hope that EC is a stepping stone for you :icon_bigg
Hallo Chargers! Welcome to EC! An awesome place where you'll find the support you need! Hope you enjoy your stay here!