I am in an emotionally distant marriage. I have always enjoyed becoming emotionally close to women but I never put it together that I may actually be able to only form this type of closeness with women. I took clues like crushes on women in my life as something like I need to have more close women friends. My last close "friendship" with a woman fall out left me spiraling into a depression abyss. I reacted so unexpectedly that I finally realized I may actually love her and had no clue I did until my son came out of the closet and said he was gay recently. I spoke with him and another girlfriend said women can be bi and so I am at my age trying to figure out how to fill the hole in my heart that has always existed.. I don want to live my life wanting and yearning and "not getting it".. So I look forward to sharing and seeing how others handle their emotions and how do you know? I feel kind of dumb questioning myself and even dumber for not being able to let the other woman go without a pain in my heart...
Hi and welcome, and your question is? If you should divorce? Make your marriage open? If you can be bi or a lesbian?
