Hello, and welcome to EC. Maybe this truly is right for you =) It seems so, but then again, I don't know you that well, heh.
have to use phone,laptop not a good move. haven't spoke to my kids about this yet, not so easy. I can only hope they are as open as I think they are.
:welcome: to EC glad to hear you feel so good being who you are! I hope your kids accept you for who you are! I hope you have a good stay here at EC! This is a wonderful site! Good luck with your journey!