Please call me Mark. Almost 62, a proverbial in the closet gay. I've come to Empty Closets for company, advice, and to hear other people's stories. I have had a score of gay experiences in my life, I'm very oral and a bottom; my first was the best. Have had sex with four girls. The last girl was probably the funniest sexual experience I've had in my entire life. I am in the closet because I grew up in a very conservative small California farming town and the thought of a man being with another man never entered my mind until high school, and that was only because I was told about it in some class. Looking back, there were hints as to my orientation... couldn't stop looking at all the dicks during gym-class showers. Had a small circle of friends that I knew, but over the years we just drifted apart. The idea of AIDS and STD's terrifies me, so I've been alone for some time... though I did (once) go to the Water Garden in San Jose 5 or 6 years ago. Am interested in safe coffee houses to talk in places like Sacramento, or even willing to drive to San Francisco; scared of bars. That is all for now.
Welcome to EC, Mark! I'm new here as well, and I can tell you that if you came for some interesting stories concering LGBT (and you did, as you have said) there is a lot of it here and I hope you enjoy your time here being helped and helping others also!