I am an older woman in her late 40's. I have been married to the same man for years. My husband and I have not had sex for about 8 years. We have both had a lot of stress in our lives. Now I am at the point I don't know if I want to have sex with my husband...my thoughts and fantasies have been about being with another woman. I think I am more bisexual than lesbian, but either way I am sexually frustrated and I don't know what to do. I am not sure if I should stay married and try and make things work or follow my instincts and divorce and try and find myself. Any thoughts or suggestions..?? Thanks.
Honestly, the only way you can figure it out is if you be with another woman sexually and go on a date with her to figure yourself out.
