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Hola, Bonjour, Guten Nacht, Hello, etc!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by isaacfalls, Sep 5, 2013.

  1. isaacfalls

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    hi hi new message board!

    well this is it. this is where i wow you with my presence and gain friends by introducing myself and being all "hey" and then you're all "hey" back and okay. i have never been good at this as is evident in this post thus far so to distract from my current ineptitude here is a picture that roughly represents me in personality

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    okay. but really.

    i don't use caps often because quick blogging has got me into this habit but i s2g i have two BAs, one in History and the other in Sociology & Anthropology, and i have worked exhaustively in women's rights, sexual assault prevention and awareness, lgbt rights, and immigrant rights programs. my heart is really with lgbt youth and issues facing sex workers. i am an intersectional feminist, bordering on radical feminism minus any "trans* critical" aspect. and i hope that while i'm figuring some things out career wise in my life i can help others with what i've learned over these years and get some support and community myself.

    as a lesbian, my background is a bit muddled.

    1. tried things out with my bestie at 14
    2. bestie told basically everyone and i slithered into a hidey hole
    3. around 16 i thought about it again and thought why maybe i'm not straight
    4. at 19 one my best friends came out to me as queer and i was like "whoah is that okay?"
    5. i was bisexual and then queer for basically all of college
    6. but after about 2 sort of unfulfilling relationships i sort of got introspective
    7. at 24 i told my current best friend that i think i'm just a flat out lesbian and he was like "yeah that makes sense, can we go i'm really hungry and pub burgers are calling my name."
    8. i'm 25 and still a bit squeaky and new at coming out and whatever and i've never had a queer/homosexual relationship, just physical trysts
    9. but i've been on 2 dates with a real cutie and have my 3rd tomorrow so maybe!

    so basically, i'm still kinda coming out and i kinda think that it's really a process that you never totally complete. coming out is just queer life, ya'know? we're always finding out something about ourselves and developing. it's the coolest part about being in a culture of so many different types of people.

    anyway~~ i've talked way too much. so, hello!
     
  2. MsH

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    Hello. (!) Your post was fantastic. Especially the pic. So... hello. :smilewave
     
  3. lovely lesbian

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    Hi! Welcome xx
     
  4. lukeluvznicki13

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    Welcome to EC (*hug*) :smilewave