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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Capecodder, Sep 8, 2013.

  1. Capecodder

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    Hi everyone. I'm a 44 year old divorced guy who is questioning a few things, as I think about starting to date again after years from being away from it.
     
  2. enigmeow

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    hey there.. welcome.. I am a 44 year old still married guy.. glad to help answer those questions..

    fire away.. :slight_smile:
     
  3. Capecodder

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    I am just not sure if going through a bad divorce has turned me off from women or if I should have been dating men all along?
     
  4. SilverGirl

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    hello there capecodder! welcome! (*hug*)

    maybe you could ask yourself a few questions...

    are you interested in men? in women? both? do you imagine youself having a relationship with another man in the future? have you ever been interested in other men before when you were younger?
     
  5. Capecodder

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    I am interested in men, and always have been. I really don't have any interest in women at this time, and as for a relationship I just don't know. Thank you both for your welcomes.
     
  6. SilverGirl

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    i understand! its very important to just be yourself and not really worry with labels for the moment, but i think people could give you better advice in this area of the forum:

    this is the best place to post because not many people look at the welcoming area: Sexual and Romantic Orientation - Empty Closets

    if you are interested, this forum is also for people dealing with it later in life: LGBT Later in Life - Empty Closets
     
  7. IzCassie

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    Welcome! (*hug*)

    Well, how do you think it would make you feel? When you imagine yourself in a relationship with a man, do you feel elated, or happy?

    If you feel anything positive, it's probably worth pursuing. Just my two cents.
     
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    Hi I am 40 this year ... ... and a late comer and still having a lot of questions... . Welcome to EC.
     
  9. Capecodder

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    Thanks again everyone. Silver girl i will look at those forums for help.
     
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