I'm a woman & finally realized after many years of denial that I'm bisexual. I just came out to my best friend. He is so supportive and I'm lucky to have him. But I have no idea how to meet or date women and I'm afraid that lesbian & even bi women will not want to be my first and will feel like they are just my "test case". I've read so many negative stereotypes of us & it feels horrible. I'm not confused! I WAS confused & I finally realize who I am. I feel like both the gay & straight community say we just need to pick a side. I don't want to choose! I love men & women and I can finally admit that to myself. I haven't come out to my family yet. I want to wait for a while on that one. Any advice would help. I'm so new to this. Thank you!