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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by hocho, Sep 16, 2013.

  1. hocho

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    This is the first time I have ever talked about my sexuallity. I am 31 married with 4 wonderful children. I love my wife very much, and I am bisexual, there I said it. No one knows, no one can ever know. The community I live in is really religious and republican in the extreme, at work around my familly, I must always put on a show. I can barely stand it. I guess I posted here just to let it out, to vent and find some info peace, if only for a little while. Thank you for you're time
     
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    Hi! Welcome xxx
     
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    Welcome to EC !
     
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    Bon jour, Como cava?
     
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    Hi welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you
     
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    Hello, Hocho. Welcome to EC! :grin:
     
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    Thank u everyone is nice and supportive
     
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    Welcome to EC :grin: :smilewave (*hug*)
     
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    Hello to u too
     
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    Hi, and Welcome to EC! This is a great site! You will find lots of support here!
     
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    Welcome... sounds like a difficult place to be. How committed are you to staying in the situation... I mean, if you felt you had a practical choice?
     
  14. hocho

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    Well I love my wife and children to much to ever hurt them, even if it means living a lie then so be it. I will not tear them apart, they are everything to me.
     
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    Welcome hope you find the site useful.
     
  16. hocho

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    I am at least I can talk to others like myself and express myself
     
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    Hey hocho... welcome !!!!

    you should visit the "Later in life" section here... lots of married gay people with kids to chat to!!
     
  18. hocho

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    Try I already looked through it
     
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    Welcome! I hope that in time, if ever, you will get the courage to come out to at least someone in real life if anyone here ever convinces or persuades you. :grin:
     
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    You're courageous and adventurous. Admirable. May you have satisfactions that affirm your self understanding and sustain you in hostile territory. I've had a similar experience and think I am slowly emerging now. Best wishes.