Hello everyone *waves* Oh my, my stomach is in knotts since I really do not know what to say since I am more of a lurker than anything else, I tend not to join the sites since I am always afraid, but I felt it was time to take the green monster by its horn and start on the road to come out of the closet and start to live my life as the person I am, so here we go: I am 20 year old bisexual girl from Norway, I live in a small town called Grong. I am really quite girl that never really speaks my mind. My family is really loud, they are really straight forward with you when it comes to everything and then I mean EVERYTHING! My family doesn't accept the gays right and means it is wrong if you are anything than straight. When I was a little girl I didn't know what it meant to be different, but now that I am 20, i know what it means and I am scared to come out to my family, in some ways I love them to death but when it comes to the gay rights and when they talk about them like they are worth nothing and that they shouldn't be allowed to live then I just want to scream that I am bi, but there is a problem, I am not a proud bisexual person but a scared one. this is actually the first time I am writing out loud that I am bi, I have always just said it in my head...
Welcome to Empty Closets, Sara! Your story sounds like that of a tragic, misunderstood heroine. It is difficult to break out of your shell sometimes... but when you do, I hope happiness follows. Being connected to friends who accept every sexuality is the first step to being proudly bi. It takes courage to come out to Empty Closets! Be brave, and you'll be ready to come out to the people who love you (*hug*)
Hi Sarasjenska. Welcome. I'm new here too. U say this is the first time you've typed down your thoughts. Well thats the first positive move. Coming out is difficult but you'll find plenty of support here so stick around and make some friends. Chat to me anytime. Michael