Hey.. I'm just starting to realize that i'm interested in girls. I'm having trouble accepting it, and it scares me. I've tried for so long to just push those thoughts away, but now that I'm in college it's getting harder to pretend anymore. I don't really know what to do anymore. I feel like if I come out no one will believe me because I've had several boyfriends in the past. I only wanted to fit in, so I pretended to be the same as all my friends. If anyone has any advice or even just some comforting words I would love to hear. (I'm 18, female, and from US.. if that matters?)
Hey and welcome to EC! Take a look at some of my earlier posts and other users here, we all come here with similar feelings, but trust me, after a while of being here you will work out your troubles. Stay strong by reading other peoples threads and using the resources people provide here.
Welcome. I'm new here too. It's hard to even acknowledge that you maybe gay. I'm there same way. Hopefully you can figure it all out.
Ceel. Try not to get stressed out about your situation. Coming out is not easy but you'll find plenty of support here, I'm sure of it. Have a good look around. I'm only figuring out the site myself. Good luck. Chat to me anytime. Michael.
hey im in pretty much the exact same situation two years ago i almost got married to a guy but i felt like it was my brother if you get me like i loved him but sleeping with him was weird i recently accepted that im like the gayer side of bi and life is so much better it does get better believe me - feel free to get in touch anytime i think our situations may be similar x
Hey! I'm new too and am finally accepting who I am, it's only very recent though so I can understand your feelings of being scared. I was terrified but am learning it gets easier. You're not alone.
