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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by believe223445, Nov 5, 2013.

  1. believe223445

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    so i am confused. i think i like boys but since iver never had a boyfriend or an actual first kiss im afraid that god wants me to be lesbian. also latley there have been alot of lesbian or gay thigs coming up so i dont know if that is a sign or not. or if its a coincidence or im just over thinking it and never realized it before. i think girls are really pretty and have nice bodies but i dont want to have sex with them or make out with them or anything. but latley i have been thinking about just kissing anybody. whether girl or boy. i think that is because i just want somebody. but i think im straight. help
     
  2. BobbyJD92

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    You may be bi, but honestly only YOU will be able to answer this question. My advice is to try kissing a boy and a girl, and who ever you feel better with go with that.

    I'm not saying that this will give you a definitive answer but it may help. In the end though follow your heart, not your mind.
     
  3. LipstickTomboy

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    At the moment, you just seem to be bi-curious. My advice is that no one can tell you who you need or want to be. Whether there's a higher power out there or not, only you know who you are. You don't even 'need' to be anyone. Just be who you are. Experiment a bit with girls for a while if you're unsure. All that matters at this point is realizing who you are.