hello from canada

I am so glad I stumbled on this sight, as I have had a battle with coming out for over 40 years. It is getting to the point that I cant stand it any more. I want to come out so bad but cant, cause of fear that I will lose my kids and family. I have had a same sex attraction since I was in my teens, got married had a family and almost feel like i have decieved my self and others. It just doesnt go away. In the past I had an affair with a very nice married man that lasted a couple of years. I t was then that I realized that i was gay. I fell in love with him and when i told him how I felt the relationship went sour.

Im looking for some support to help tell those I love that I am gay so that I can set my self free and be who I am.

 

he was married and was worried about being outed