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My story

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by AGlimpse, Nov 20, 2013.

  1. AGlimpse

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    So I am new to this online thing and is new to the lgbt community. I lived my whole life as a straight woman until suddenly finding myself in a relationship with a woman, falling for her and having feelings for her that I have never felt for a man.

    After all of this, I realized that I've liked women since middle school but was in denial and fought it with everything in me because I knew that my mom would never accept it considering that she is very traditional and brought me up in church; so pretty much for the first time at 24, I am identifying myself as a lesbian and is looking for friendship.

    I also just not too long ago broke up with the person that I've ever had a lesbian relationship with, so I feel a little like a fish out of water. So please don't be afraid to chat with me.



    The only person that I can be is...me.
     
  2. Gallatin

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    Hello, and welcome to EC. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm sorry to hear. Hopefully you'll find someone who fits you better. Welcome to EC and I hope you like it here! =D
     
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    I enjoyed reading your coming out story. Welcome to the forum.
     
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    Damn girl, ur story is alot like mine except for the fact I waited till I was 46 to come out. God what a waste of years trying to be what everyone else wanted me to be. So glad ur doing this at such a young age ( same age as my girlfriend ) so u will not have years and years of regrets. Welcome.
     
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    Welcome to EC!
     
  8. AGlimpse

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    Thanks everyone for making me feel welcome ( :
     
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    Hello and welcome :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey!
    Glad you found yourself! Welcome!
     
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    Hey AGlimpse, I understand where you're coming from. I have lived as a straight woman almost my whole life. I just now, at 25, am making it known to the world that I am in fact a lesbian. :slight_smile: Welcome to the site! Write on my wall if you want to chat sometime!
     
  12. AGlimpse

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    Hi cupcakekisses, I am glad I am not the only late bloomer I was worried that other lesbians would snob me because of that fact, like going through puberty all over again haha.

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    Hi, thanks for making me feel welcome and I am glad I am not the only one with this story.
     
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    Welcome to EC... i love it here you will too..