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Hello! Not sure what I am or if I need a label

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by beyond, Dec 1, 2013.

  1. beyond

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    Well,

    I am a male in my mid twenties. I have some slight bisexual/bicurious tendencies.

    I also have on occasion wondered if I would be better living as a woman/being female. I am comfortable as a man however.

    One thing I have discovered is an enjoyment for wearing a dress, which I did for the first time yesterday, with my very wonderful and kind and supportive and encouraging girlfriend. I am not sure if it is simply a thrill, sexual or otherwise, but I doubt it. It does seem more than that. It made me feel very happy and free, and putting my trousers and jumper back on felt slightly constricting (though maybe because they allow less movement!).

    I am not sure what all this makes me?!?:slight_smile:

    Not sure I am going to be a regular poster, guess I just wanted to share this.
     
  2. Zeevie

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    Hi :grin: Welcome to EC! Thanks for sharing :slight_smile:

    Congrats on taking this step, and having such a supportive girlfriend!

    Don't rush yourself with labels (they can sometimes be a little constricting anyway) and just focus on what makes you happy :slight_smile:

    Hopefully, you'll find all the support you deserve here :grin: EC has been great for a lot of people and I'm sure will be wonderful for you too!!
     
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  4. beyond

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    Hello and welcome!

    As Zeevie said, don’t rush yourself with labels. They will come on their own once you truly know who you are. However, they will give you your sexual identity.
    Wether you’ve come to EC for the support, the community, or just for the chats. No matter. You can find all of that here. I hope you enjoy the website and the community.

    Cheers.
     
  6. SweetNShySam

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    Hello, welcome to the forum beyond! :slight_smile: I'm glad you came across this site, feel free to post any chance you wish too. I think it's great you have such a supportive girlfriend with you. Just came across this site this week and I'm struggling with my sexuality as well at the moment. So your not alone: I know I have the label as bisexual but I still have a hard time accepting this sometimes and I get quite depressed about it.

    This site will help you if you need support. Don't worry about labels as of right now. Just simply be yourself: and I should take my own advice myself, lol!
     
  7. beyond

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    Oh she's wonderful. She likes me in the dress, and thinks it's attractive.

    She's even bought me a pair of red knee-high high-heel suede boots to try :icon_bigg
     
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  9. beyond

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    Hello hello :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 1st Dec 2013 at 01:30 PM ----------

    Tried my dress again today. TWICE :grin:

    Boots coming soon, and a corset. Exciting. :slight_smile:

    What section do you think would be good for recording my explorations?
     
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    Hey there!
    Welcome!
    I really hope you find what you're looking for here ^__^
     
  11. toushirojaylee

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    Hi and welcome to EC!