Hi ...41 male married ... Been bi curious forever .... Since I started thinking about relations I guess .... Going through a split up .... I guess I'm just confused as to whether I'm gay/straight/bi or just curious .... Have kind of a crush on this guy I work with ... Not a good place to work and be gay .... Wouldn't last long out there .... He's very flirty ... We tease each other a lot about being gay ... He has a g/f and I'm still pretty much married ... He has brought up me giving him oral while we were alone ... I'm not sure what the heck ...
Seems it'd be a lot simpler if a guy was just one or the other .... Just gay or just straight ... Or even if a guy knew either way ....
I used to be in your exact spot. I know how frustrating/confusing it can be, but the path to discovering just who you are is well worth it, and you're at the right place for that. Welcome.~
I too am coming to terms with my bi-curiosity, it's funny. I used to not want to acknowledge any attraction to men but I'm becoming more comfortable with it. I find that this is all I can think about right now because I'm being more honest. I have a great relationship with my loving wife to be and what is so cool is she is very accepting! Not too sure if I'm down to experiment as I have never had any real sexual desire, only for her (she is the first person I've been with in that way). But don't worry! It's fine to like both man! I know it can be confusing.
