Hello my names Ivan and i live in Arizona one of the more anti-gay states. I feels if i'm the only gay male in my age range(18-25), in my area. I've never had a boyfriend, let alone have i ever met a gay guy in person. I really feel alone and I've tried every avenue that i have at my disposal and nothing seems to bring any results. What should i do? Is it normal to feel like you'll never ever find anyone? Please just try and help me and please talk to me.:bang::icon_sad::tears: P.S. I have self esteem issues really bad...if that adds any bit of useful info for you.
Don't worry sweet pea, I'm kind of in the same situation. Please dont laugh at my age I know. But I think I'm lesbian still figuring out and I feel alone because the other girls who claim to be bi are faking so they get more attention, I'm not just saying this they admitted it. I know how you feel I feel so alone too I just can't take it sometimes. We just have to keep holding on cause it gets better.
Yeah, it can definitely be tough when you don't have others around to help you see that you aren't alone. I've actually also never met a homosexual person in real life, let alone another transexual one. But that's what this is for: so that even if you live in the middle of the heterosexual, cisgender ocean you can be comforted into knowing that you're not all alone.
i never really believed that "it gets better crap"... cuz so far.....nothing...nothings got better... few years ago i told my mom that im gay and her psyhoctic mentally unstable and bi polar bf at the time beat the shit out of me...so no i dont believe it gets better... you know what word i see in believe? beLIEve.
I know how you feel. I know gay/bisexual people but they are all in relationships.....and even if they weren't my confidence issues prevent me from getting anywhere in terms of dating :/ Please do know, though, that you are not alone (*hug*) I'm right in the same boat as you, and I'm sure allot of other people on this forum are. You seem like a lovely person and I'm sure when it's right, it will happen. I'm sure you'll find someone absolutely amazing and realize that they were worth waiting for Don't give up hope. If you need someone to talk to feel free to post a message on my profile =)