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  1. hatiko

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    Hi all!

    I am not awfully social, but I can really appreciate friendship and reliability. And I always do all it takes not to let my friends down.

    I was raised in a pretty traditional society in Asia, and it took me more than one year to accept that I am actually homosexual, after I realized it few years ago. Still, I don't allow myself to look at men too much, never ever had sex with men, and try to stay that way. But damn it's hard. I am not sure what to do next. I don't exactly know what I want from this forum yet, but I decided at least I should start talking.

    I am currently in Toledo OH.

    Hope to be a good member :slight_smile:
     
    #1 hatiko, Dec 14, 2013
  2. forbiddenlove12

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    :thumbsup:Welcome to EC! I'm not sure what to say other than welcome! Hope you find all the support you need!
     
    #2 forbiddenlove12, Dec 14, 2013
  3. hatiko

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    Thanks, buddy!:icon_bigg
     
    #3 hatiko, Dec 14, 2013
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    :slight_smile:
     
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    Greetings from another grad student on the other side of the Ohio River! Hopefully you can find EC to be as good a place for you as it's been for me!
     
    #5 SemiCharmedLife, Dec 14, 2013
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    Hello!Hello!Hello!. I hope you like it here! (!!)
     
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  7. hatiko

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    Hey guys :icon_wink

    Yeah, lets hope. Don't work too much :grin:

    I am already starting to like it here!:dry:
     
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    Hello!! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC!
     
    #9 toushirojaylee, Dec 14, 2013
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    Hi
     
    #10 Double Eagle, Dec 14, 2013
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    Hi and welcome !
     
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  12. hatiko

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    Hi toushirojaylee! Hi Double Eagle! And hi Sarene!
    :slight_smile:
     
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    HI Hatiko! Welcome to EC !!! I remember coming to Toledo, Ohio once.... nice place :slight_smile:
     
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  14. hatiko

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    Hi freeskies! This place is probably not as nice as before...
     
    #14 hatiko, Dec 14, 2013
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    :eusa_doh: Oh.... to be honest i was there last summer. Didn't get to see anything, as i recall there was a lot of road work and other construction work. So are you an international student?
     
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    Yep, I am on Health Science campus, second year PhD program.
     
    #16 hatiko, Dec 14, 2013
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    Oh! cool! I'm a graduate student too at university of cincinnati
     
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    Welcome !!
    I'm new here too, feel free to message my wall if you want to talk or something :grin:
     
    #18 Nikky DoUrden, Dec 15, 2013
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    Hi! I can relate to the traditional Asian family upbringing, even though I was born and grew up in the US. It's good you're understanding yourself better, which is much better than staying in denial to appease your family.
     
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  20. hatiko

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    Hi guys! It really IS good to understand yourself... It helped me to better build my attitude towards others. I think I cannot post on walls yet, but I sure will try to keep in touch.
     
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