hello :smilewave, i'm rose. i have used the terms 'bisexual' and 'queer' interchangeably when referring to my sexual orientation but since i have been married to a woman for the past couple of years, i tend to mostly use 'queer' (i just feel weird still saying bi, like i'm holding onto something that's no longer of use, if that makes sense). not too many interesting things to say about myself, i'm just a regular secretary from ny. i guess i'm here really to exchange ideas and perceptions-- despite already knowing and understanding what i am, there's still lots of questions, concerns, and curiosities for me. i hope i can offer as much as i gain while i'm here.
I have just held on to being bisexual because if like who I am with and we both are comfortable with each other why looking for a reason to label it? So don't worry labeling the situation just by how you are with. Be happy and welcome!!