Male-last I looked- old enough to know better and childish to not act like it.. NOT seeking any sort of romancing nor even flirtation beyond the most en passant pleasantries.. At the level that social graces entail. Oh- I am warmly chatty with all, it's from a point of mutual respects that causes me to be blunt in the don't bother cybering me etc as a hard limit.bit. I am not going to be anyone's lover for the foreseeable future other than meatspace family. On to the "why" I am here- for comparing notes with others pondering gender what if sort of scenes. Sharing the mechanistic nuts&bolts of several being frank- kinks- that have entangled with "gender" for me and others I know. Let us be quite real as adults- or our inner children being rebirthed so to speak. I've my entanglements I'm sorting out. And mayhaps sharing my/our notes with eachother whilst lauging together- might be mutual joy..