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I suck at these things

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by confusedinnh, Jan 1, 2014.

  1. confusedinnh

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    I'm confusedinnh

    been questioning myself for a number of years

    see, I told ya I suck at these things! LOL!
     
  2. Simple Thoughts

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    Hello and welcome to EC!

    Don't worry, if you need to talk to anyone here we're here to help, and we have all sorts of threads to sift through ^.^
     
  3. thehorseisbrown

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    Hello there

    Yea im going through a real shitty time atm and finding my fantasies to be increasingly about men and men and women together. Confuuuused. At the age of about 13 I had abit of a crush on another boy but that has been the only time ive ever "fancied" another guy and im now 26.

    I kinda dont really know how to get any dialogue going, this is the only time ive ever pursued this side of me. Maybe ive subconciously always been abit of a homophobe, I dunno

    As confusing and as odd as it may feel, im finding it quite empowering and liberating. Ive never told anybody other than one bisexual friend and all I told him was that I liked the way marc bolan looked lol
     
  4. confusedinnh

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    Thanks for the welcome, Simple Thoughts!

    ---------- Post added 3rd Jan 2014 at 06:00 PM ----------

    I totally understand where you're coming from.

    Sometimes I think that homophobia is fear of ONE'S OWN sexuality rather than the sexuality of others.

    I've been lurking here for a while and have done a lot of reading. There's a lot of good advice. I hope we both find the advice we are looking for here.
     
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    Welcome to EC! You seem to be doing just fine! :slight_smile: Hope you find answers to your questions in this community. Happy New Year!
     
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    Hello! I just joined a few days ago myself. You should get ten posts so you can do wall posts! Don't worry about what people will think of you, it doesn't really matter. I think you should try talking to one of the counslers, but in my opinion you should explore this. I usually go into greater detail, and if you want me to, feel free to message me somehow and I will. I am pretty sure I can't tell you something you won't hear from someone else, but I am really good at talking and explaining things!
     
  8. chivalrous

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    Dont worry you dont suck at all!!!! Hello its nice to meet you! and you also seem like a positive soul! so we have one thing in common and im sure eventually you wont be confused so dont worry about it!!! Welcome!! :grin: once again :smilewave

    Oh i just had a idea:
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    i just made a person never even thought about it! ok ignore it im just being a dork now lol :slight_smile: Welcome to EC! Oh god my person was terrible nevermind!
     
  9. confusedinnh

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    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome!!!!

    chivalrous, I love the person you made! And you're definitely not a dork! :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC!! Don't worry, you did just fine. Writing intro posts is awkward...