I think I was suppose to do this before my 1st post oops! Anyway hello everyone from a very confused 39 year old bisexual who has just come out to her husband and a few friends. I'm Looking for someone to talk to who knows what it's like to be married with children and having all these confused feelings. I have never had a relationship with a woman but have had very strong feelings for a friend. She is no longer talking to me though and my councillor says I am actually grieving for her. My marriage is going through the mill to say the least so I think I am about to lose that too. Sorry for the depressing introduction, it's difficult to give a positive outlook at the moment. Something I am hoping to improve with time.
Hello again and welcome to EC! I really hope that you will find kind people to talk to and some answers to your questions here!
I am in a similar situation and going through the same emotions as you. My wife is still in denial but am sure she will face reality soon. I am also struggling with guilt feelings and also feel it is not fair of the persons that contributed to us seeing our true selves now abandoning us.
