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greetings from Wales

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by bottomsup, Feb 13, 2014.

  1. bottomsup

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    Hi everybody:slight_smile:(!)
    Im nearly 40, have always.questioned myself, promised myself in teens to allow myself this later in my life, and now im there, im here!!
    Been a lot of mental anguish, am out to a few for nearly three years now
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    Oh, and im a parent, of four, yes four kids... Omg.
    Im gay, bi whatever, possible tv. Or perhaps just a really vivid imagination! Hmm,no.
    Anyhow, hello to you all, my friends ill call you:slight_smile:
    Thanks for reading and replying if you do.
    Regards, much love and kisses xxxx(&&&)
     
  2. Welcome to EC! :slight_smile: you're not the only one who's questioned their sexuaity at a later age. there's many on here going through similar situations! with that said, we're a fun and friendly bunch on here so don't be shy to ask questions!
     
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    Hi, thanks, I did try to keep it simple, but la la la.
     
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    Croeso,

    I hope you settle in well, there are many helpful forums including one for older people.
     
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    Hi welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there! Welcome to the forum. :welcome:
     
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    Shame to fit into the "old" category already, hey im not even there yet, didn't realize this...
    Lesson learnt there!. great intro by me into this room here"slight shudder"
    Feeling some pain, but am stronger than all that.
    Might hold off deleting my acc for now, thanks for the Croeso dude:slight_smile:
    love to all.
    Xxxx

    ---------- Post added 13th Feb 2014 at 06:57 PM ----------

    On, so before I get really offended, the suggestion that as a 39 year old im to old to come out or to be here chatting.

    Ooh listen to me, shif, I need to stfu

    the shame of my first post weighs heavily on me, its stupid, not like me atall.
    Hope it will soon be lots in theany thousands if I blood y stop accidentally bumpping it talking to myself - lol can I have my own thread, then I won't bother.anyone, and you can.hop.in.qnd have a laugh from time to time!?

    Im sorry , snif, /wipes tear im lol, like a little emotional at times...
    Oh if only it was a side effect of hrt lol, but no, just me
    Don't kick me yet, you might.get some fun outof me first!

    ---------- Post added 13th Feb 2014 at 06:58 PM ----------

    Avg 3.5 hrs sleep per day so far this week.. Nite,z zz
     
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    Claws filed, (not that I have any, but I do have a pussy lol) (catz)
    And put away, know im beautiful as are we all.
     
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    hi there you just made my day...night...whatever. as for that old crap, i'm 48 if you're old what am i ? wait don't answer that. lol you sound like an awesome person hope you stick around.
     
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    Yeee! Ha ha, thanks setnyx!!!

    Happy to all, boy girl and all the colours inbetween:slight_smile:

    Its really really good to find onesself, all the better for the long wait um hoping!
    I want it all, (wow what a song that is) .
    Loves to all:slight_smile::slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks for your time all:slight_smile:
    Oh, its aphidany time, full moon, and its simple - be yourself, dont be afraid, stand tall strong and proud.
    Bought first makeup today, back tomorrow for more, and if all goes to plan, tomorrow night, I go to private family birthday dressingup party, glamed up, can't go to Ott, as it is family, but makeover time is on babez:slight_smile::slight_smile:

    Be yourself, love yourself, dont be afraid. "Fear is the mind killer" (anyon recog the quote?)
     
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    I didn't mean any offence in terms of your age, neither did anyone else. Its just that there are lots of teenage and 20 something's here, so by those standards you may be considered as old. There are people in their 60's and 70's here so I wouldn't worry too much.

    But the older forum is just a choice if you prefer mature advice, but you can use all the forums, which people of all ages regularly use.
     
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    Hi, bottomsup. Clever name...

    Look to the left. Note my age. Repeat after me: I. Am. Not. Old.

    And you're certainly not too old to be coming out. I mean, I just did a few weeks ago!

    Seriously, come visit the Later in Life forum. I know, I know--just the name of it sounds old, really old. But don't be put off by the name. Posters in the forum range from their late teens to me and a couple of even older folks. I know, it's hard to believe we're still alive, huh?

    But there's also a good-sized contingent of once- or still-married folks with children, so you'll probably find a lot of questions and answers that you'll relate to. And best of all, we don't bite.

    In fact, recently, a 13-year posted in the forum and lingered awhile.
     
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    hello, and i am glad you came to us for help discovering yourself. :grin:
     
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    I love the age,69lol.
    Much respect to you all, both new and more mature hands:slight_smile:
    Yes sorry I was overreacting, sorry King, did not meant to disrespect or appear hurt like a hussy.
    Lol, was just feeling all daft as you do!
    yes, have turned into a teenage kid in recent years, sometimes let it speak out to much!
    Thanks, eager to check that ye olde post you mention.
    Have realised recently (duh) that age is nothing, its still you, will feel exactly the same, just more fantastic memories to enjoy:slight_smile:
    Big respect, and hugs and kisses to all :slight_smile:
    also, that were the enlighted ones, and happiness and peace with yourself is the only route to not just having a tortured pained and stressfull shorter life. Course stress is everywhere, but internal conflict stress is constant and debilitating, no good.
    Great to hear from all responders, thanks for your patience and understanding, and again sorry for any discomfort or wasted cycles of brain activity fathoming my responses, your all here helping each other, I respect that a lot and wish to help where I can also:slight_smile:
    Happy happy joy joy:slight_smile: