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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Daniel003, Feb 20, 2014.

  1. Daniel003

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    Hey im new here
    Im only 15 but iv been questioning myself a lot lately.
    I dont really have anyone that i can talk to so im really glad that i found this site
     
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    hello i am 15, from the UK as well....and i just joined today lol :slight_smile:
    u wanna talk?
     
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    Sure messiem
    I wud love to
     
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    so why are u questioning yourself? any particular reason, or just suspicions?
     
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    Well some friends were joking about it a long time ago but i had already noticed that i didnt feel the same way about guys as my friends did
     
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    I'm guessing that means romantically and/or physically? Have you spoken to many people about it?
     
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    Both and ive spoken to two people
    My best friend and some one i know is just generally supportive of everyone
     
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    well thats so great that people are so supportive :slight_smile:
    how did u tell ur friend? I told one of mine via cake an icing haha
    So do u like girls then or are u not entirely sure?
     
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    Hello Love :slight_smile: I'm Nisha Welcome
     
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    I texted them- im not really very good at face to face talking
    And yer i like girls but im not entirely sure about anything else
    I know im not straight but that is all
     
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    well thats a good start, at least your sure of something :slight_smile:
     
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    Yer its a good place to start but i dont like not knowing the rest
     
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    I know it's so hard when you don't know!! Literally... I only fully accepted myself (I hate that phrase but it's true) in the Christmas holidays after basically years of not considering and even ignoring certain feelings. But still after I had come to the conclusion and realisation I still was looking everywhere I could for confirmation!

    But seriously... you know you like girls and you don't like boys :slight_smile: what's more to know?
    Focus on the things you do know, and what for the other things
     
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    Yer my friends say i should just focus on what i know
    Its great that u did finally accept yourself but i dont think i have ever actively ignored any of my feelings
    I think i just didnt know what they were
     
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    Haha amen to that! I totally didn't really know really at the beginning... i just thought I was just have a momentary lapse of sanity lol
    It's good that you can talk about it with your friends... with my three friends that know it's not really a point of conversation that really pops up a lot
     
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    No neither
    I only told them about a week and a half ago and since then we havnt really talked about and definately havent spoken about it in school
    But i do think i can talk to them if i need to and im sure that if you wanted to then your friends would talk to you about it
     
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    Yeah I know they would...
    Yeah i told my friends pretty recently as well... about four weeks ago the first two, and then the other one a week ago
     
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    Cool
    I guess it will get easier to talk to them about it when they are more used to the idea

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    Cool
    I guess it will get easier to talk to them about it when they are more used to the idea