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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by kneesocks, Feb 20, 2014.

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    Hi everyone. I've been lurking for a bit and thought it's about time I joined.

    I've been inwardly arguing with myself about my sexuality for a while now...and lately it's kinda getting me down. But I am so glad I found this site - it's reassuring to read that there are others that have been through similar experiences :slight_smile:

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    hello and welcome :slight_smile:

    so... what makes you so questioning?
     
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    Hi, thanks :slight_smile:

    Well, without giving you my life story haha - I'm pretty sure I'm gay, I'm scared, but I'm trying to accept myself. I'm not ready to talk about it to anyone irl (I tried to talk to a friend who came out not long ago, but she scoffed at me - it seriously hurt - won't be doing that again..) so this seems like a good place to start :slight_smile:

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  5. Welcome to EC! We're a fun and friendly bunch on here! :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks! :slight_smile:
     
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    That seems extremely unfriend like (no offence) to scoff someone who probably went through the same experiences as you. but i would still try to talk to her about it.

    and you r right, this is a good place :slight_smile:
     
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    None taken, I agree, especially as she had a rough time coming out herself and I fully supported her throughout. But I think she just wasn't emotionally in the right place to give me support/advice. It was a while ago now though, I do still get tempted to talk to her but I'm too apprehensive. I think eventually I will, but I want to be ready this time. And cool, that's good to know :slight_smile:

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    Hi, thanks! :slight_smile: