Hello everyone , I am 31 years female and yes i admit that i love a girl who married recently , now i am going through from the tough kind of situation dnt know what to do and how to handle. As its like i am empty and drifting through the wind like a paper bag or so ....! however i asked my girl friend to get out of this marriage relationship but seems she wants her life with a man and kind of with me too , we both are not yet exposed to anyone so i cant talk to anybody on this ! seeking for help....
Hello! ^_^ Welcome to the forum, I hope you have a nice time here. Hope your problems sort themselves out neatly sweetheart, I wish you the best of luck. ^_^
Hey Freedom. Welcome to EC. Really tough situation to be in, and I'm sorry that it's so out of your control. :/ Is she happy with the man she's with? It's reasonable if she wants to be with her husband and continue to be friends with you, but, in my opinion, your relationship shouldn't extend beyond being close friends. I think it'd be really unfair to you if she stayed in her marriage but had a relationship with you, because you'd clearly not be getting your fair share of her. You're in a complex and crazy situation, and one that I've not read much about. Best of luck to you, and hope EC can help advise you on the matter. <3
Thanks, she said dnt want to live with her husband but cant leave him , what she will telll to family, she told me to be as it is as we are, but i guess this is not the right way means how can you live with a person whom you love and at the same time sharing too... what was that then i have spent bloody 7 years with her and now its that easy to be live as she wants me to ... when she will call i have to talk like the way i always how can i do this ? but thanks for your reply atleast i can talk to someone on this as nobody knows that what i am ...! and honestly i m hating me for the first time to be me !!!! ---------- Post added 4th Mar 2014 at 10:15 PM ---------- thanks for your wishes but do you think it will be sort out easily? what i am going through is that simpe and easy ? ---------- Post added 4th Mar 2014 at 10:30 PM ---------- it will over ? ---------- Post added 4th Mar 2014 at 10:31 PM ---------- i am just hopeless......!
Ye, it is expecting a lot of you to somehow just deal with not being able to be with her. :tears: Very rough situation.
salaam nd maybe u could apply for a visa? get a job in the states nd come out to ur parents in the states nd marry a girl?
