Hello there, I'm new to all of this, one night I randomly came across this forum and it caught my interest as it really spoke to how i currently feel. It was comforting to see/read that others are in a similar situations. I am in my early 30's living in the burbs of Chicago. I currently consider myself as bi. I have had more then my fair share of experiences with many different women in my life, but as of late I have had experiences with a few guys. I see myself as a top, and have had very fun and safe experiences with people that i have cautiously met. At this point in time i keep that side a secret, as my screen name shows. I don't have feeling within me to make it public as i like to keep my personal life to myself on most fronts. Just thought i would say hello