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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by faerie, Mar 17, 2014.

  1. faerie

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    Hi everyone
    I am a 22 year old bisexual female living in New Zealand. I have always thought I was bisexual (though I am not out, only a few people know) though I have only ever been with guys as I have been too shy to act on feelings for girls. I have joined this site today as I am finding it increasingly difficult to hide these feelings, and I feel more and more as though I am more attracted to females - I don't feel emotionally or sexually attracted to males anymore and cannot imagine 'ending up' with a male anymore. I am very confused by these feelings and although I am 100% comfortable with being bisexual or lesbian, I worry about how my friends and family would react. I also wonder if lesbians would even be interested in me since I have always been with males. I guess I have a lot of questions! So I am here to start my journey of self discovery. I would love to chat! :kiss:
     
  2. deejay

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    Hello! Welcome to EC! For sure you'll find the support you've been looking for in here. Stick around and check out the forums... =)
     
  3. TearDropFairy91

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    Hello! ^_^ Faerie welcome to EC. I hope
    You are able to discover yourself and good luck!
     
  4. Anthemic

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    Hello! :grin: Gosh, I can relate so much. I used to crush on boys all the time up until I turned 14. Then I fell in love with a girl who came on to me and that's all it took! Now I can't imagine liking men. o.o
     
  5. Hi!Keep discovering
     
  6. lovely lesbian

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    Hello and welcome to EC!
     
  8. ChocolateCookie

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    Hello and welcome Faeri! Good luck on your self discovery :grin:
     
  9. Penpal

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    Welcome to the EC. It's a great place to meet people in similar situations. There is lots of support here.