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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by CharlsOn, Mar 18, 2014.

  1. CharlsOn

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    Hi, everyone I'm CharlsOn!!:slight_smile:
    First of all I'm german so it might be that this is not 100 % correct english:slight_smile: But I try to do my best. Feel free to correct me:slight_smile:
    For something like 2 years now I know that I'm lesbian. But now I see I knew it a long time before. Even in primary school I was always the one that played football with the boys. I was wearing boys clothes and was a real tomboy. Nowadays I would like to play more football but i don't have any time and someone who would play with me. What a pitty!:slight_smile:
    I came out to my best friend in December I think. It could be also January but that's not important:slight_smile: I called her and said "I have to tell you something. Can I come to you tomorrow?" But I knew she would ask right now so I prepared. And I said it to her. It was not that difficult I thought before. It felt so good to say it someone. :slight_smile:She was the first. I said it to my mom while we were watching the news that said a football player came out.Then it went a little like this "Hey mom. You know? I like girls." She looked at me as I was crazy, thought I was kidding her. But I knew she was and though is ok with is. Long story, short meaning (if this is a term??). Everyone I told 'till now is ok with it and I'm happy:slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! You are very lucky to have such nice friends and mom! :thumbsup:
     
  3. CharlsOn

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    Thank you!:slight_smile: And yeah I'm soooo happy to have them.:grin:
     
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    Welcome :slight_smile: I must say, you are very lucky to have such supportive friends and family! I hope that drives you on to be more confident in yourself :slight_smile:
     
  5. CharlsOn

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    I really hope so! I'm not not self confident but not that much I wanna be.:slight_smile:
    Let's see what the future brings:wink:
     
  6. Owl333

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    Nice to meet you Charlson. Welcome to EC! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:
     
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    welcome! I'm Marina, nice to meet you!
     
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    Pleased to meet you! Also, congrats on coming out! ^.^
     
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    Hello! I'm glad you are happy from coming out. Your English seems excellent!
     
  10. CharlsOn

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    Cool!! Thank you all!:grin: Here are so many nice people!!!:slight_smile:
    I'm so glad I found this forum:wink:
     
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    Hi there! Welcome to EC, nice to hear your coming out story is not as difficult as we have experienced... Way to go!!! =)
     
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