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Hello from Germany :)

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by PinkUnicorn, Mar 20, 2014.

  1. PinkUnicorn

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    Er..., I'm not good at those introduction threads, so I'll keep it short:

    My name is PinkUnicorn (not sure if I can mention my name with all the rules & keeping everything secret), born in 1991 and I'm from South Germany. English is not my first language and I suck at grammar, sorry about that.

    Like I wrote in my profile I'm lesbian/gay (I use both, gay sounds better and I miss having a German translation of that word). I found out that I like girls when I felt attracted to my former best friend when I was around ten. I never really thought about it until later. (I did not know about being gay & everything, it was just normal for me to be in love with girls).

    My family knows that I'm gay and they fully support me and they also support gay rights. (I think I'm very lucky with them, they are perfect!) My Mum has gay friends, co-workers and she just wants that I find someone I love. I don't hide my "gayness" so I guess other people know it as well. I have liked certain Facebook pages & have a rainbow coloured key strap at work and I wear a rainbow coloured bracelet as well sometimes. I also went to our CSD here and I plan to go there this year again.

    I'm Autistic which makes finding a relationship very hard. I struggle a lot with that. I do want a relationship, I miss cuddles/kisses and all the other things. :icon_wink Recently I reactivated my account on a German lesbian dating site and I decided to try my luck again. Thing is that I'm quite unsure if I want a relationship or not. Sure I want the positive effects :icon_wink but everything else is difficult. (I wrote in my profile that I kind of want a long distance relationship in the same town, that sums it up pretty well).

    Well, so much for keeping it short. :icon_bigg

    Are there any other Germans here as well?

    PinkUnicorn
     
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    Welcome to EC! :icon_bigg
     
  3. lchristopher13

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    Welcome to EC :slight_smile:
     
  4. CosmicNautilus

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    Hey, you! Great to meet you, welcome to the forum :grin: Unfortunately, I'm not German (and don't speak any), but I am part German XD Also, for what it's worth, I think your grammar was perfect :slight_smile: That's really good for you; to be out to your family and everything, how cool that they're so supportive :grin: Good luck with finding someone, I'm sure in the meantime everybody here'll be willing to support you with everything :grin:
     
  5. PinkUnicorn

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    I always thought that this is nothing special, but after reading a couple of posts on here and other places I know now that it is indeed not normal. I'm really blessed with my parents. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi PinkUnicorn. I am not German, but have lived in Germany twice. Once for three years and once for two years. I loved it there. Unfortunately I have forgotten most of the language. I also think it's great that you have a wonderful supportive family.

    ~Max
     
  7. IJustWantToLove

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    Hi PinkUnicorn, welcome to EC =)
    And yeah, there are, I'm German too :smilewave
     
  8. Ravi-VIXX777

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    Hello from the USA! I'm glad you have wonderful parents. And there is love for autistic people too for relationships! (*hug*)
     
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    Welcome to EC PinkUnicorn! It's nice to meet you.
     
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    Guten tag

    Welcome to the forum.

    I'm really pleased your family are so supportive, that's fantastic!
    I hope you enjoy the site.
     
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    Welcome to EC! What a treasure you have for you have such family who can be supportive... Way to go!!! =)
     
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    Welcome to EC!!!:slight_smile: Great, another german:grin::grin:
    I'm also from South Germany/Bavaria:grin: