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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Zarabi, Apr 10, 2014.

  1. Zarabi

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    (I'm typing this on an iPad mini so look past any mistakes you find haha and it's long I had to cover the basics)

    Hey everyone, I'm Madison aka Madie. I'm 16, pushing on 17, I'm Almost a senior in high school, and I'm a lesbian. I've known I wasn't strait since 15 years old, but I brushed it off as asexual because I hadn't 'found the right person' and thought my sexuality was the reason? But that was two years ago, and I've grown and learned that I am in fact, a lesbian.

    My take on all that is I was denying I was gay at that time. I've always been lgbt+ friendly, I guess I didn't know how to feel about myself being gay as I was young and naive at the time. Plus, being afraid to express my sexuality because I'm really shy, and worrying in general about how I'd be treated by my peers/family.

    My very best friend in the whole world who I've known since 6th grade knows I'm a lesbian, and she's really cool about it i can trust her and she was the first to know about my sexuality, Asexual and lesbian.

    I know for a fact this isn't a questioning phase like me being ace was, I am, in fact, attracted to females 100% and I'm cool with it. I'm joining this forum so I can learn some more about myself and get some coming out tips before I tell my parents. :slight_smile:

    [in short: hey I'm Madie, I'm a lesbian, and I'm very pleased to meet you!]
     
  2. TJ

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    Heya! :grin:
    Welcome to EC, Madie! :smilewave
    Very nice to meet you.

    One question for you:
    You said, "she was the first to know about my sexuality, Asexual and lesbian."
    Are you saying you're asexual and lesbian, or am I misunderstanding, because later you just mention being lesbian.

    Anyway - See you around! Very nice to have you here. :thumbsup:
     
  3. Zarabi

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    Whoops I meant I'm not both, I meant I told her first in both cases. sorry I wasn't clear, hope I fixed it :slight_smile:
     
  4. TJ

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    Yes ma'am! Thanks for clearing that up. :wink:
     
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    Welcome to EC! Hope you enjoy your time on the site :slight_smile:! :grin: :smilewave :eusa_danc (*hug*)
     
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    Welcome to EC! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello! Welcome to EC... Have fun in here and for sure you'll get plenty of awesome online friends.