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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by selmae30, Apr 11, 2014.

  1. selmae30

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    Hello! I need some advice
     
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    Welcome to EC! :grin:
    What do you need advice about? Enlighten us. :grin:
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC! :slight_smile:

    What kind of advice are you searching for?
     
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    Hi and welcome to EC!!!:slight_smile:
    Here is the right place to get advices and stuff like that.
    So feel free to ask anything:grin:

    ---------- Post added 11th Apr 2014 at 07:28 PM ----------

    Funny, three comments almost at the same second:grin:
     
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    I kissed a friend last night. We were very drunk and while we are kissing someone opened the door. I don't know if it is my mom or dad. I can't go out of my room because of that incident but neither of them talked about it.
     
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    Hey, welcome. As the others have said let us know what we can help with.
     
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    If you're really worried about what one of them thought, you could ask them about it. Sure it's a little embarrassing, but they're your parents. They'll be more concerned with the implications of you kissing your friend than the actual act.
    Are you in any position where you feel comfortable talking to your parents? Are they pretty open-minded?
     
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    They're not open-minded and I'm not comfortable talking with them because they judge my actions easily. They also judge other people without hearing their side. I love them but I hate it when they're like that.
     
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    If that's the case, you might just wait it out a little bit.
    You said you can't leave your room - did they tell you to stay there, or are you staying there by choice?
     
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    Well if you don't want to talk to them about it then it's probably a good thing that they haven't said anything. If I were you I would carry on as normal and see what happens.
     
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    Maybe they'd be more open minded because you're their daughter! :slight_smile:
    But if neither of them is talking about it, you could probably carry on as normal. :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello! Welcome to EC!!! As for the advice, in the meantime act as if nothing happens and carry on doing the same things you're doing... act normally... However, just be prepare if in case your mom/dad brought it up to you to clear up some air... It will come sooner so just prepare the things you really wanna say to your parents, at least that would help you as well, so you can be more comfortable to who you really are... And stick around, for sure you'll get plenty of good advises and online in here, so have fun and enjoy!!!