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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Jeffrey, Apr 19, 2014.

  1. Jeffrey

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    New here, I'm a bi male, 54, southern california area, want to come out but cant figure out how to tell the family. Thinking about having breast implants so I can become a transsexual. Help?
     
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    Hi Jeffrey!
    You definitely came to the right place! Can't really say anything about the breast implants or being transsexual as I don't have much personal experience with this, but I can say to bring up the topic of bisexuality and/or transsexuality to the family. See what their reaction is. Depending on their reaction might help determine what to say next. Whether to tell them or not. If you feel that things went ok and your family seems to be ok with bisexuality and transsexuality, then just come right out and say it. Bear in mind that people may be ok with bisexuality and transsexuality, but not so much with you being bi or transsexual. Some people don't understand and don't know what to do or say. But I would definitely see what they're reaction is first, and then go from there.
    Hope that helped a little. And welcome again! :slight_smile: I think you'll like it here. :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC! I wish you the best on your journey!
     
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    Hello! Welcome to EC!!! Good luck on your journey... Stick around and hope you'll find your answers here...
     
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    Welcome, Jeffrey!
     
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    welcome to EC
     
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    Hey:smilewave Welcome to C. I hope you find what you are looking for.
     
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