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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Namaskwa, Apr 21, 2014.

  1. Namaskwa

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    Hi! You can call me Kyle. This site looks really cool. I've been searching for a gay forum with a lot of posters so I hope this will be well suited.
    I'm not out to anyone except a professor, though it was in an essay and I only claimed I was bi (I'm gay), so I don't really know if that counts :confused: . But I don't know. I'm only sexually attracted to guys but I feel like I could fall in love with anyone under the right circumstances. Does anyone else feel in a similar way?
    I guess my main interest is the outdoors. But yeah, other than that just let me know what you want to know. See you around! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey Kyle, you can call me Chrissy haha :slight_smile:

    Literally just joined myself and I feel the same! I am currently in love with a girl but think I could have fallen in love with a guy. But still a lesbian haha- I make no sense!

    I noticed you've said you're not out at all- does ANYONE know?

    :slight_smile:
     
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    Wow, this was your first post. Welcome to you too!
    I know, love is a weird phenomenon. I've had plenty of crushes on girls, yet it wasn't really a sexual feeling, just... a crush. And sometimes I'll find people's personalities endearing. It's just complicated, you know.

    Not counting the professor, nobody in my personal life knows I'm gay. It's fine though. It's not like I need to tell anyone, but it does get awkward when I'm expected to show affection to girls when I'm with friends.
     
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    It sure was! And thank you :slight_smile:

    It's really weird.. and I really get you, I'm not really sexually attracted to guys (no offence :wink:)

    And OMG yes! It is so awkward, when I'm out with friends that don't know and they go 'look he's hot' I'm just like 'yep' lol. On one hand I want people to know but on the other I am fine people no knowing! Don't you ever want to just talk to someone about it??
     
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    :welcome: to EC, Namaskwa!
     
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    Hey Kyle! :smilewave Welcome to EC!

    I understand you completely, I mean, I'm bi but I'm more interested in guys right now, and although I see girls and think "she's hot!" it's kind of sad I can't be so open when I see hot guys. :lol:

    Anyways, I feel the same way about love. I always say that I can't say I won't fall for a certain type of person, because as you said, under the right circumstances I can may end up loving someone totally unexpected to me :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi Kyle! Welcome to EC! :smilewave I'm sure you'll really like it here! :slight_smile: I've only been here a week and I absolutely love it! There are so many great people here!
    I'm bisexual, so I know exactly how you feel :grin: Sexuality is a pretty fluid thing :wink:
    P.S. I love the outdoors!! What kinds of stuff do you like doing outside? I'm a total camper girl and I love biking! :slight_smile:
     
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    Welcome to EC
     
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    Welcome Kyle! :slight_smile:
     
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    Hello and welcome!! :icon_mrgr
     
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    Welcome to EC!!! Good luck on your way to discovery... :wink:
     
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    At times I'd like to talk to someone about it. I'm just worried people won't want to hear it. If I'm going to tell someone, I want to make sure they'd accept me, you know? I live in a generally conservative region so they (friends, parents, acquaintances, etc) make it well known that they don't accept homosexuality. Someday I'd like to move, leave everything and just start a new life.
    I love hiking and biking! I can't wait until school is finished so I can get out there again!
     
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