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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by closetcase80, Apr 21, 2014.

  1. closetcase80

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    Hi All-

    33 year old female here. Dated men all my life....until recently! Struggling to come out to family and friends. Anyone else struggling with declaring your sexuality? I am finding it tough because I am still trying to figure myself out. I suppose on a sexuality scale of 1-10...I would fall somewhere around a 5 or 6. I like men. But I like women too.

    Anyone else out there that wishes to hash this stuff out? Would love to chat. Once we figure out this coming out stuff, we can move on to solve larger problems, like the national debt. For now, coming out will suffice.
     
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    Hi! Welcome to EC! :welcome: You definitely came to the right place! I'm also bisexual, so if you wanna talk about anything, I'm always here to chat!
     
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    Welcome!! :grin: I'm sure you'll have no problem trying to find the right kind of support here. Best wishes!
     
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    Lol, I thought you were 80 years old and still in the closet!

    You will find many, many people here who have also struggled with their sexuality. Bisexuals in particular have pressure from multiple directions to conform.
     
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    Welcome to EC
     
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    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome!
     
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    Yeah, you certainly came to the right place. You might like the LGBT Later in Life forum, which is for those of us that have come to terms with or dealt with disclosing our sexuality later in life, and that forum is filled with people in various situations that I think you'd probably be able to relate to.

    At any rate :welcome: to EC :slight_smile:
     
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    Hey! welcome and im new here too :slight_smile: I'm still kind of struggling on the scale and questioning my sexuality all the time so constant struggle but good luck on figuring it out to you :slight_smile:)
     
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    Hi there! Welcome to EC!!! It's really hard to out yourself to your family, because as for me I have not told them yet since I came out to a few trusted friends last year... It just takes time and depends on circumstances...
     
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    Welcome! I can kind of feel what you are going through right now. I always dated men...and then boom, started to come to terms with some feelings I knew I had been hiding.