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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Faithfully, Apr 27, 2014.

  1. Faithfully

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    Hi, my husband has told me that he wants to become a woman. I guess, I saw this coming as for the last couple of years I kept asking him questions. When he would drink, he would always want to dress up in my clothes & wear a wig. At first he told me he was bi & he has had relations with other men. But I knew he wasnt bi, he like being a woman too much. We get along so much better now. I love him so much but I hate watching him go through this roller coaster he is on, knowing I can't help him or give him what he really needs.. I am so confused... I just want him to be happy & to be true to himself & me
     
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    Hi there are plenty of people who can help:-D
     
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    It's really sweet of you to help her through this :slight_smile:

    :welcome: to EC! (i had a similar thing happen to me, my "boyfriend" became my girlfriend, that was over a year ago :slight_smile: )
     
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    Welcome! :slight_smile:
    What he really needs is you to be supportive and understanding. (Which it sounds like you are!)
     
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    Hey, you! Really brave of you to come online about it (and what an awesome choice of forum, too XD ) Well, good luck on figuring everything out (EC is always here for you!), and nice to meet you =)