hello there. Here is my little story So hers The day a wanted to tell my Dad and Mom I am gay .My dad and mom made it clear to family how mats thy hate gay men and how unnatural . So my plan was stop right there in my boots. at least I now how I am So looking for friends and advice .:help::smilewave:bang:
Aaah, a fellow South African, Whoop whoop!!! Welcome to EC! Let's start at the beginning, how old are you? I'm asking because it would help a lot to know a little more about your back ground before we start dishing out advice.... For instance if you're still in your teens living at home it would be pretty bad advice to tell you to come out if there's a possibility that your parents might not be willing to support you further... So really it depends on your own personal situation.... This is a good place to start though!!!
Don't take that as a personal attack. It's just a lack of understanding. I'm here if you need to talk welcome
Hey and welcome to EC! I'm sure that one day you'll be able to tell your parents regardless of what they say, if that's what you really want. Just be sure not to do it if you're still living with them!
