My name's Matthew, I'm 17 and I have already come out with my mother, she accepted me, and also with my dad, but he didn't understand .....He said I was just confused and it was just a phase. However my problem is not being accepted. (let alone the fact that my sister is really homophobic and made me feel sick of being gay, by making some nasty jokes about it)...my problem is social anxiety, depression and loneliness. I have to deal with these feelings costantly and I don't know what to do. At my school I'm struggling with having me accepted by my mates, who suspect I'm a homosexual and make funny jokes about it....I don't care much but I's not a beautiful sensation to be rejected by a friend you believed would never cheat on you. BTW My life still goes on, and I'm hoping I'll get all my problems solved..
Hey Matthew:smilewave You are going to find a lot of cool people here who will listen, advise, talk and be friends. Just jump in and see how quick they come around! Welcome To EC!
Welcome to EC, Matthew! I can definitely relate to a couple of the things you mentioned, so if you ever need someone to talk to just send me a message.
Hi Matthew, welcome to Empty Closets! In my opinion in the opinion of many members in the gay community, being gay isn't a phase. I suffer from depression and loneliness myself, so I can definitely relate to how you feel. My advice would be to surround yourself only with people who accept you for who you are, who love you, and who will not try to change you. I hope you enjoy your time at Empty Closets!
