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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by CyclingFan, May 1, 2014.

  1. CyclingFan

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    Hi everyone!

    I'm a 41 year old male, married. Been questioning for a long time, not sure why I thought I'd gotten a definitive answer, but here I am! :lol:
     
  2. resu

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    Welcome!
     
  3. Mirko

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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets! You will find a few EC members who have gone through a similar experience. You have come to the right place to find some answers, and perhaps will be able to begin moving forward.

    Welcome aboard! :slight_smile:
     
  4. CyclingFan

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    Thank you! I'd seen some of those before I signed up today. I'm going to be working with a therapist about this, but, for as helpful as that can be, I can only imagine that I'm going to need some people in the interim who can relate.

    *sigh* even this is helpful. I've only ever told 1 other person before and that was 20 years ago. Well, that fear has got me exactly no where!

    Maybe I can also work on my anxiety that I used too many commas in my first paragraph? :wink:
     
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    Hi we can help
     
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    Cyclingfan,

    Welcome to Empty Closets! You are not alone. There are many married men in the world who question their sexuality. It is okay to question your sexuality, even at your age. :slight_smile:
     
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    :welcome: to EC!!
     
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    Welcome to EC! I'm sure you'll figure things out here. :slight_smile: