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New here, just figured it out

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Bane, May 20, 2014.

  1. Bane

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    Hello, the name's John. Like in the title, I just figured it out today and told three of my close friends that I'm NOT straight, or even bi. I am gay. However, I was in complete denial this whole time and now will try to accept and be more confident with myself as I am. I guess I just didn't like to be associated with the gay word (or its variants) but I feel relieved from this great burden. No more hiding, no more pretending. This is me, in the beginning process of self acceptance. Whoo!

    Aside that, I'm so looking forward to meeting new friends here. Looks like a gnarly site! :thumbsup:
     
  2. Hey!
    Congrats for coming out to yourself!
    and Welcome to EC!! :slight_smile:
     
  3. happydavid

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    Hi!!! Newbie here as well! Congrats on coming out!!!
     
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    Welcome!! Great to see you here!!
     
  7. sandrew255

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    Hi!
    I'm sure you will make friends here. Enjoy x
     
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    Welcome to EC! :grin:
     
  9. Chip

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  10. Bane

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    Thanks all for the gnarly welcome! Think I'm gonna like it here!

    I'm home baby! :grin:
     
  11. regain my hope

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    Hi and welcome :grin: