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Hey I'm new!!!

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by what827, May 26, 2014.

  1. what827

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    Hey I'm from the U.S. and I'm currently discovering my sexuality! :smile wave

    I have had many crushes on males, but if they ever admit they like me or try and kiss me, I shut down emotionally. This might be due to my anxiety (and I have had panic attacks after a guy admits he likes me back).

    I know I'm sexually attracted to women (as I fantasize about them, not particularly for males), but I have never had an emotional crush on a woman. I'm not sure if this is just because no one has ever shown interest in me and I'm not sure if I would emotionally shut down with them.

    Does anyone have any advice/ similar experiences? Thank you!:thumbsup:
     
  2. Weekender

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    Hello and welcome!
    I'm not quite in the same boat, but I'm sure you'll find people on here that have been where you are right now. :slight_smile:
     
  3. happydavid

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