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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Deviant One, Jun 8, 2014.

  1. Deviant One

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    New here. I'm married with kids. I've always been bisexual but have only dated men. I've more recently thinking more and more about women. I am really not interested in men anymore at all. So unhappy, don't know how to make myself happy without making others unhappy. Posted in the "later in life" section last night, no responses. :/
     
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    Would you be able to tell your husband that?
     
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    No, he would not be understanding at all. He won't come out and admit he has a problem with homosexuality but by comments he's made I'm the past I know he doesn't agree with it and finds it wrong. He's careful about saying stuff around me because I have a brother who is gay.
     
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    oh, you cant control- do you think he would become violent if he found out?
     
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    No, he's never been the violent type but he can have a temper. I honestly have no idea how he would react .
     
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    oh, so you might have to really tell him then, theres nothing worse than being in a unhappy marriage
     
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    Yeah, it's just scary. I hate hurting anyone and I worry about how my kids would deal with a divorce.

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    Thanks for talking:slight_smile:

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    Hi, love the dancing banana! :slight_smile:
     
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    no problem, anytime
     
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    If you're unhappy, you need to speak up. If you're unhappy, he's gonna realise it sooner or later, then he'll probably be unhappy.

    It's a tough situation though. :frowning2: (*hug*)

    Also welcome to EC. :slight_smile: